To spend or not to spend?

It may be the new year but for some of us we still have some extra money (unless you were consumed by the Boxing Day sales) either from your birthday,Christmas or other holidays around this time but some things are certain for everyone when buying things.I will start with some things which are very likely around this time.First of all its the “sorry madam,we do not have that size in stock” this is very likely when it comes to shoes as I’m a size 4/5 which is the same size as a lot of people apparently especially people who like what I like and go to the same shops as me! Whether it’s clothes or shoes it’s seems whenever you see something which you love in shops especially in sales they don’t have your size which if like me you have the problem of falling in love with a clothing item or a pair of shoes before you know if they have it in your size in stock and it turns out they don’t can be very devastating. (I’m sorry if this is to upsetting and advise you not to carry on reading if you’re already crying at this traumatic event) another thing that goes with sales which happened to me recently with a top I brought is buying something then a week later it’s in the sale for 50% off.There should be warning signs on these clothes saying ‘I will be in the sale next week so don’t buy me now’ but sadly there is no such thing, another tale which I think everyone had been through is the no money see everything problem and vice versa.This is my problem 99% of the time sadly and I feel I need to contact shops to make sure they put good things out when I have money and put all the horrible things out when I don’t! So if anyone can put me in touch with someone who can do this it would be much appreciated! The last thing which is something I’ve got quite paranoid about and is one of the reasons why I still have Christmas money left over (but not for along as I’m going internet shopping in a minute!) is seeing something after I’ve spent my money.Personally this has happened to me a lot and is something which is on my mind when buying things,I have to ask myself If I definitely want it and if it’s a no then back it goes.(then about 10 minutes later I go back and buy it) which if I do decide to I don’t bother looking in other shops unless I have enough money because that’s just torture which even the strongest couldn’t endure!